Keeping Your PINK Slip

Elegance does not consist of putting on a new dress..'He'll never respect you as being able to hold your own unless you can stand on your own two feet financially'.A gurl don't have to be rich, just have to maintain the ability to take care of herself..Because a man wants a strong woman, not a HELPLESS kid..Sexually, this will impact the float in his boat..I had my eyes on this principle-In a relationship of any kind, if one person feels the other person isn't bringing anything to the table, he or she will begin to disrespect that person..There is one simple story in this book where Michelle was living with a man for four years..For most of that tume, he paid everything because she didn't have any money.Then she inherited some money.He asked her to help pay some bills,she declined.He didn't asked her to carry all the weight or even half of it..He merely asked her to pitch in.Still Michelle insisted that the money for her retirement. Shortly thereafter, he 'retired' from the relationship-at which point she moved out..She was then forced to pay several times the amount of money for her own living expenses..I know how exactly you feel when you have to bring the food on the table whereas the other just know how to clean it up..and I am not blaming you for your retirement..I should know that no matter how pretty a woman is, looks alone will not sustain a man respect.Appearance may pull you in, but it is herself independence that will keep him turned on..to conclude this..The bitchier woman would never let a man think that she's there because she has 'nowhere else to go'..But she is there because she want to stay with him...not to burden him..as she can stand on her own two feet..I do respect you decision and I really wanna be with you because I'm a woman whe needs a guide from a man like you to guard me..hide me..and keep me besides you..No matter how strong I am, I still need my Imam to be my master..and insyaAllah..I know I cant make you love me, but I can love you as we go on..day by day..ups and down..p/s: I am sorry for being late...

Don'Give Up..Just Keep A Good Heart

Life is not all about Pleasing others. I know sometimes being such a nice person wont changed other to treat us the same but Don't GIVE UP...No matter how they responsed towards us, just keep doing the same thing..Because I do believe, a very strong stone do brokwn away with a water.. But sometimes I am so tired and so damn exhausted because I never showed them what exactly I felt about this..I keep on smiling whenever in front of anyone...because why should I told them my story when they can only listen but cannot understand..heartless...and what is the most painfull, when the only person who can understand it cant make himself to listen..Sometimes I just need him to hold my hand and say that I am not ok thus he  turns up for me...yet he couldn't do that as we were on different planet..but there it goes again, DONT GIVE UP BEING A GOOD HEART..so here I am to forgive..not because you were doing something wrong as you never did it..instead you are the most wise man I ever met..but I forgive you because being nice to me all this while..I forgive you for keeping me secretly beside you where you cant tell anybody just to make sure I dont lose you..Hiding so many things from me just to avoid my heart wound eventhough u knew how strong my heart could be..Nevertheless u do the things that might really hurt me so much when I know it later, I wont put a grundge in me towards you..perhaps and for sure I would be graceful..Because I wont give up being a good heart as it already be part of me..I dont have to worry if the world put me down to earth..I should know thats the life cycles never stop till the heart no more beating..And I know I should never also holding my heart from Loving him because he is my present from Allah..Syukur Alhamdulillah...I feel better when he used to say 'Ekin, I know you're not ok'...Thank you so much...p/s: Love of the Lifetime