Keeping Your PINK Slip

Elegance does not consist of putting on a new dress..'He'll never respect you as being able to hold your own unless you can stand on your own two feet financially'.A gurl don't have to be rich, just have to maintain the ability to take care of herself..Because a man wants a strong woman, not a HELPLESS kid..Sexually, this will impact the float in his boat..I had my eyes on this principle-In a relationship of any kind, if one person feels the other person isn't bringing anything to the table, he or she will begin to disrespect that person..There is one simple story in this book where Michelle was living with a man for four years..For most of that tume, he paid everything because she didn't have any money.Then she inherited some money.He asked her to help pay some bills,she declined.He didn't asked her to carry all the weight or even half of it..He merely asked her to pitch in.Still Michelle insisted that the money for her retirement. Shortly thereafter, he 'retired' from the relationship-at which point she moved out..She was then forced to pay several times the amount of money for her own living expenses..I know how exactly you feel when you have to bring the food on the table whereas the other just know how to clean it up..and I am not blaming you for your retirement..I should know that no matter how pretty a woman is, looks alone will not sustain a man respect.Appearance may pull you in, but it is herself independence that will keep him turned on..to conclude this..The bitchier woman would never let a man think that she's there because she has 'nowhere else to go'..But she is there because she want to stay with him...not to burden him..as she can stand on her own two feet..I do respect you decision and I really wanna be with you because I'm a woman whe needs a guide from a man like you to guard me..hide me..and keep me besides you..No matter how strong I am, I still need my Imam to be my master..and insyaAllah..I know I cant make you love me, but I can love you as we go on..day by day..ups and down..p/s: I am sorry for being late...